You know them: The boxes with the shutters that you can open every day until it’s Christmas. Nowadays there are many different Advent calendars for sale. From cheap ones with chocolate to more expensive ones with cosmetics or even sex toys. But what if you don’t want to spend a lot of money? How can you make a nice, sexy advent calendar to surprise your loved one? We have some ideas and suggestions for you.
The best things in life are free
It is much easier to spend (too) much money on Christmas gifts, than to keep it within a limited budget. Still, the best things in life are often free. You know; the things that really matter.
Suggestion 1: 10 days of nudes
Send your fuckbuddy, friend-with-benefits, or your lover a series of nude photos of yourself. You can share these with him or her in various ways. For example, print the photos and stick them on a (large) sheet of paper. Make a front with doors from an equally large sheet and paste it over the first sheet.
Or, if you’re a little less creative, put the photos in numbered envelopes. Or send one every day via Whatsapp, or Snapchat.
Suggestion 2: 10 days of love letters
If nude photos are not your thing, you can also make 10 love notes. In them, you can either approach it from your romantic side, or you can include naughty little fantasies. Things you would like to do together one day. You can go as far as you want.
Suggestion 3: 10 days or porn
If both of you are not averse to watching porn together, try sending a link to a porn video every day for 10 days. Choose videos that you think your lover can appreciate and that will not leave you unmoved either. Sending a link to a porn video can lead to a fun discussion about your deepest fantasies.
Suggestion 4: 10 days of sex challenges
Or challenge your partner to do different sexual acts (with you) for 10 days. These can be new things, things that push boundaries, or just things that you know your partner is totally ‘in’ for.
For example, consider “2 hours of edging,” “sex in front of the mirror,” “rimming,” “masturbating together,” “striptease,” “body painting,” “bondage,” …
Or, if you have some budget left….
Suggestion 5: 10 days of sex toys
You can make this as expensive as you want. Make a package out of a box (10 to 1 that a lot of things have been delivered in boxes in the past few weeks) by making little hatches in it. Buy 10 different sex toys and place them behind the hatches.
Build up the 10 days. Make sure the best toy comes last. Our suggestions:
- A blind fold
- Stimulating lube
- Hand cuffs or a bondage set
- Massage oil
- A mini-vibrator
- A (little) butt plug
- A glass dildo
- A Tenga Egg or an iroha petit (disposable masturbation aid for him or her)
- Anal beads
- A remote controlled vibrator
Suggestion 6: Mix ‘n match
But why choose? From the above suggestions, take the cutest one and combine it as you see fit!
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