Sometimes you see things on the Wondrous Wide Web that make you think “why, for God’s sake why?” And that’s what one of our readers must have thought when she stumbled upon a website of the genre CFNM. She asked us what it was and why men love it. We at NBRplaza figured it out.
CFNM, what is that?
CFNM stands for “Clothed Female(s), Nude Male”. It is a porn genre in which a naked man is surrounded by a group of 3 or more women who are fully clothed.
Although the genre has been gaining popularity in recent years, its origins lie with the ancient Greeks. Male athletes were naked and for the games, unmarried women were taken to watch the men. The goal was to excite the women so that they would more easily consent to marriage (or sex). Married women were not allowed because their husbands might become jealous. Roman women also often had gladiators fight for them naked.
The term CFNM first surfaced several years ago, on a Web site called “Visual Sensations for Women” by one Brad. But now if you search on the term CFNM you will find a large number of hits.
There are a number of variations on this theme:
- ‘The Bachelor Party’: A group of ladies enjoy a male stripper, with whom they do all sorts of things you can do with such a male stripper. It often starts with just a sensual lap dance, then moves into the inevitable whipped cream licking, ending with blowjobs and sometimes more. The man is obviously having a good time and the women are cheering and cooing like crazy. That idea.
Still, the fact that the women here keep their clothes on is of less importance in this variation. - ‘Humiliation’: A group of women force a man to undress and then make him (and his little pecker) look utterly ridiculous. They humiliate him, force him to kiss their feet, tie him up, humiliate him some more honor and make him have sex with them against his will. The issue here is the inequality and unfairness caused by the man’s nudity and the women keeping their clothes on. Compulsory nudity can be very humiliating. You also see this with prisoners who have to appear stark naked in front of their jailers. The men in the CFNM videos do not want to be surrounded by naked women, but rather by women who are fully clothed. That gives those women a form of power and dominance.
- ‘School’: Especially in Japanese porn, the theme is quite common that a man lies naked on the table while ‘schoolgirls’ giggle and play with the man’s sex. It all seems that the girls are embarrassed and, for the first time in their lives, full of wonder at the increasingly stiff cock, only to react dumbfounded and whooping with feigned disgust when the man comes.
Often in CFNM it doesn’t get beyond handjobs and blowjobs, because, after all, the women keep their clothes on.
CFNM is not a form of exhibitionism. A (male) exhibitionist forces himself on others who do not want it. Instead, CFNM is about the women wanting the man to get out of his clothes.
Incidentally, the opposite also occurs (CMNF), but that is much less special, because women in porn are generally more likely to be naked than the men (but you know what we mean).
Why do men like CFNM?
Actually, the description above of the subgenres already gives away a bit of why men love this genre. In the “bachelor party” scenario, men identify with the stud who turns the girls’ heads with his body and leaves them with wet panties. Women may have gotten used to being an object of lust (ad nauseam), but for a man it can be a surprising experience. Some men fantasize about being blindfolded and having a group of women watching and groping him. When women express their appreciation of your body and get excited simply by looking at you, it’s a real ego boost for a man. It gives him self-confidence.
Other men actually like the submissiveness. They get excited by dominant women who humiliate them and have sex with them. Submissiveness is not very accepted among men socially. Men are supposed to be tough and show masculine behavior. Therefore, you often see that in such CFNM movies the man is forced to perform acts against his will. The thought “I couldn’t help it, I was forced into submission” can play a role here.
What about women? Do they like that too?
Some women like the fact that in this genre it is precisely the man who is the center of the action, where in most porn the focus is entirely on the woman. Furthermore, the men in CFNM films tend to be quite pleasant to look at and are also usually much younger than the men in average films. The only other genre in which this is the case is in gay porn, and that, in turn, goes too far for many women. On the other hand, the attention in this genre goes entirely to the men, and often the women don’t get their due at all. Many women say “if I were there, I would have taken off my clothes a long time ago.” Despite the fact that only the man is naked, this is a genre that still only stimulates men’s fantasies. You would think that this is about women having power, but in the end the women are only there to satisfy the man’s needs.
Not all women are dominant and often cannot greatly appreciate the submissiveness in CFNM. Others, on the contrary, like the inequality and enjoy treating the man as an object of lust for once. It fits in with the feminist view to turn roles around for once and put power in the hands of women.
But even women who do not like domination can appreciate CFNM, because of the security it provides. You can touch and watch the man without “anything” going on. Especially for (very) young women with little experience, this can be an interesting first experience with the male body.
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I love the CFNM dynamic and regularly meet with a lady to spend time naked and erect with her while she is fully clothed. We often go for walks in the back yard where i would masturbate in front of her. I find it a turn to be looked at. And I am not a young man. I guess I love exposing myself to consenting adult woman. And I love it that she can see everything, front and back!