Role playing can brake the routine in the bedroom like noting else. It is exciting to act like you are a (fictional) character. Place yourself in a completely new setting and go for it. For example, by acting to be a masseur or masseuse, that gives the client a ‘happy ending’.
Why is it exciting?
In general, the relationship between a sports masseur or a physio and the client is of a business nature. It is unprofessional when the masseur goes further than strictly necessary. But a massage is relaxing and intimate on the other end. Just because it is ‘not done’ to go just that step further, it is extremely exciting.
Tips for an exciting role playing game
Place yourself completely in your role. Agree who is the masseur or masseuse and who will be the client.
For the masseur: Make sure that you adjust you clothing to the right atmosphere. Pull on some white clothing for example and prepare the room by placing towels and massage oil. Put on some relaxing music, light a scented candle, and dim the lights. Make sure you stay in your role. Keep it distant and professional. Decline overtures of the client (‘I’m sorry, what are you doing?’). Of course you know exactly what you are doing. Let your hands get as close as possible to the most sensitive body parts of your partner, without actually touching them (or perhaps accidentally). Be that true heuse tantra masseur and make it last as long as you can. Or are you more of a physio? IN that case, you might want to consider using a massage device.
For the client: Are you the client? Then follow the instructions of the massage therapist. He or she is the professional and does this on a daily basis, remember? Let him tell you what clothes to take off and how to lay down. Get seduced by the scent, the touches and the entire atmosphere. Make sure you the therapist notices what the massage does to you. Squirm. Sigh. Moan. Groan. Try to seduce the massage therapist.
In this setting, massage oil is essential. Choose a massage oil that smells nice, or that is stimulating or warming. Scented candles are also a great idea. With a massage candle you hit two birds with one stone. These are scented candles, of which you can use the melted wax as massage oil.
The wand vibrator was once developed by Hitachi as a massage device. In the meantime, many wand vibrators have been made available, that are well suited for an erotic massage (and much more). Do you find such a wand vibrator a bit scary (or just plain expensive, I get it), you might want to consider a more friendly alternative, like the Octo.
You can take it to the next level by giving a full body-to-body Nuru Massage. Or invite a friend and treat your partner to a four handed massage!
Massages get even more intense when your client wears a blindfold.
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