Role playing can brake the routine in the bedroom like noting else. It is exciting to act like you are a (fictional) character. Place yourself in a completely new setting and go for it. For example, by playing the role of the senior director, that has a meeting with the assistant.
What makes it exciting?
Oscar Wilde once said: “Everything is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power.” And that what this role play game is all about.
The role play game between the boss and the assistant is a classic scenario. The boss is working late on some dull report and the assistant helps the boss to get the work done in time for the deadline – no matter how late it gets. Who doesn’t recognize this? Almost every romantic Hollywood film has a scene like this.
For many people, this is a role play game that is easy to imagine. You probably have the appropriate clothing in your closet already and it doesn’t take much to fantasize how this can turn out.
This is also a great scenario to change roles for once. Is the man in the relationship a manager during daytime? Let him be the assistant.
How far you will go in this powerplay is totally up to you. The assistant doesn’t necessarily have to play the submissive role. Many bosses are glad to be seduced by the assistant that is actually in the lead this time.
Tips for an exciting role play game
For the manager: Like with any other role play game, it is the same with this one: get into character. Make sure you create that office atmosphere. Do you have a study at home? Perfect. If not, make an office desk out of your dining table. Place some office props (like a binder, a stapler and a laptop). Dress accordingly. Wear a suit and tie, put on some nice shiny shoes and do your hair.
Think of a subject for the report you have to make. What kind of company are you running? It might help if your company is in the ‘the adult business’. What about importing sex toys? You may have some of ‘your own products’ lying around? Be busy and don’t get distracted from your goal: you have to finish that report before the deadline and you also have that conference call with the head office from oversea.
For the assistant: The assistant can also emphasize the office atmosphere with the clothing. Are you female, put on some appropriate but sexy clothing. As a male assistant you wear a tie of course. Make your boss some coffee and get him something to eat. Be attentive.
But then there is that moment in dullness when you get bored. The report is boring. Try to seduce your boss into a break. And if he doesn’t want to, give hi m a striptease during the conference call – your boss can’t say no at that moment!
You will already have most of the clothing and props at home, but if you don’t have a tie, get yourself a real ‘Christian Grey’ tie. You do know those are perfect as blindfold or to tie wrists together, don’t you?
Remember it’s just a game, so you might dress just a little more sexy than you usually would to work. Put on some sexy lingerie, or a sexy dress.
And if you came up with a company selling erotic stuff, make sure you have some samples lying around.