Sure, it’s great to have eternal foreplay and to make love for hours. But you know what is also big fun? Just an occasional quickie. Push your knickers aside and have sex like animals on the spot – wherever that may be.
Do it against the wall, on the toilet of the pub, in the dressing room of that department store, or on the backseat of the car. Just quickly before the visitors arrive, when you come home after a night out, during your lunchbreak at work, or just before you get out of bed in the morning. Just push your clothes aside, or tear each other’s clothes off. What difference does it make when you will be a little late? Only you and your partner will know the real reason.
Dirty is good
A quickie is wonderful and ‘dirty’. Both men and women like to have rauw , hard, brutal seks once in a while. Just let your instincts drive you. Your partner will love to be desired this way.
You know how you like a hamburger every now and then? It doesn’t have to be a gourmet meal all the time. Well, a quickie can mean as much for your relationship as hours of making love. Of course a quickie is all about a fast relief, but even if you don’t orgasm, that short savage shag can add a lot. Just a quick oral or hand job on the fly can be really great.
A quickie can mean different things for different people, but what all quickies have in common is that they are … well … quick. And that’s why you might not have sufficient time to get wet (when you have a vagina). Whether you will be penetrated by a toy, a finger, or a penis: some extra lube can do miracles. Also persons with a penis will benefit from a little lube, to make the hand job nice and slippery for example.
Although orgasms should never be an aim in itself, it can be a great relief in the end after a short quickie. A great way to make it to the finish line swiftly, is by using a vibrator. The extra vibrations can speed up your orgasm like no person can.
Location, location, location
Having sex in your same bed all the time can get very boring. So switching your typical location is an easy way to make a new kind of connection with your partner. It’s exciting to do it in a different place. Have you ever done it in a a closet? Or at the backseat of the car? The chance of getting caught can make it extremely exciting.
Although a quickie means that the sex itself will be quick and hasty, that doesn’t mean that you can’t work towards it. In fact, a quickie will become extra hot if you can anticipate days in advance. So build up the tension with erotic messages, flirting, or naughty conversations.
Change of scenery
Spontaneity can be very exciting every now and again. If it doesn’t become a habit, a spontaneous quickie can be great. The big advantage is that it will make your brain more active if you do things in the spur of the moment. Also, it will lower stress levels. Changing your (sex) routine will not only make your sex life more exciting, it will also keep the fire of your relationship burning. Surprise your love with spontaneous sex when he or she least expects it, for example just before your partner is off to work, during dinner, or by booking a hotel room when you plan to have lunch together.
Where ever, whenever
With a quickie you can have seks where and when you want. You don’t need to plan it and it will brake the routine. It’s fun, exciting, and the hormones dopamine and oxytocin will be released, which will make you feel happier. You will feel more adventurous, and it your relationship will benefit. A quickie every now and then is just as important as hours of love making. It doesn’t matter if you do it with your long lasting partner, or with a fuck buddy or one night stand.