Are you – for whatever reason – away from your loved one for a while? Then there is nothing more fun than teasing each other via DM. Exchanging tantalising messages is so much more satisfying than endlessly scrolling through your TL. That’s why below I give you 10 texting games you can play with your partner.

Why should you?

Of course, you can ask your partner things like ‘what would you do if …’. But eventually, after the third time, that gets pretty boring. What then? Send nude photos? Why not play a game? It’s fun and if you play it right, you’ll get to know your partner better too. Besides, it doesn’t have to be super serious, intimately erotic. You can increase the fun-factor of sexting with these games.

1. Playlist

Together, make a playlist of the best music to have sex to. This can be quite hilarious, as it might well lead to surprising insights (“what, you fuck to heavy metal?”). I once had a friend who went totally fine on Moby, for example. Take turns sending each other sexy songs and if you agree, include it in a Spotify playlist!

2. Yes/No/Maybe

A perfect way to know if you share the same sexual interests is by making a Yes/No/Maybe list. What’s that? Suggest a sex activity and ask whether your partner would do it (yes), would never do it (no), or would consider it (maybe). For example, ‘Giving oral’, ‘receiving anal’, … This kind of list is most fun when you are pushing the boundaries or just over them. Secretly share your deepest fantasies and see if your partner is up for it.

3. Share your browsing history

Your very best friends would delete your internet history if you were killed in a car accident. Right? But hopefully that won’t happen to you soon, in which case it is especially fun to share your history. Especially the last porn videos you watched. Try not to judge, but be open to each other’s fantasies. Don’t cheat!

4. You HAVE TO choose

You know those games where you have to choose between eating only white bread all your life or missing your left pinky. Well, play something like that but with naughty questions. Like ‘would you like to come inside me, or over me?’, would you rather wear my worn panties, or use my toothbrush’, ‘would you rather go to a swingers’ party, or have a threesome’, …

5. 20 Questions

Have a sexual activity in mind and let your partner ask questions that you can only answer with ‘yes’ or ‘no’. Can your partner guess what you have in mind within 20 questions?

6. Truth or dare

Ah, and classic.

The rules of the game are very simple. Person A chooses whether to tell the truth (truth) or prefer a challenge (dare). If person A chooses ‘truth’, then person B comes up with a question that person A has to answer in all honesty. If person A chooses ‘dare’, then person B should present a challenge that person A has to perform. Here I have some inspiration for you.

7. Fuck, Marry,Kill

In this game, you present each other with photos of (famous) people and ask your partner whether they would fuck, marry or kill this person. Be careful with people from your circle of friends, because before you know it your partner will tell you that they see your bestie as fuck material…. Better stick to movie stars and photo models, and so on. If necessary, go a step further and build a dream team of people with whom you would like to have an orgy.

8. Write an erotic story

Take turns writing one word of a story. be amazed at the unexpected twists and turns the story takes and wind each other up (or laugh together at the total nonsense).

9. Reminiscing

Remember that time? Take turns telling each other about a sexual experience you had together and tell why you found it so exciting at the time. Ask how your partner had experienced it then.

10. Shop sex toys

Browse the range of an online shop that sells sex toys. Tell each other which toy you would like to have and what you would do with it. With some luck, you’ll give your partner some gift suggestions.