Wouldn’t you like to know what the best way is to satisfy your boyfriend with your hand? Seize this opportunity with both hands, because we of NBRplaza will give you a hand.
Jerk off, wank, hand job: how do you do that? Read on and become an expert.
Take a comfortable position
Are you right or left handed? What is most comfortable for you? Don’t try to show your tricks in positions that are uncomfortable for you. It’s OK to move. Roll over and go sit on his other side, if that seems better. And why sit next to him? Go sit on your knees in front of him, while he is resting on the couch. This allows you to use both hands, which brings new opportunities. Or sit on top of him, while he lays on the bed. Or – and then we will stop – stand behind him under the shower and wrap your arms around him.
Use lube
In contrast to women, men don’t produce enough natural lube. Some men like it (a lot) when you apply something slippery during a hand job, such as lotion, soap or lube. Sliding you hand up and down (the standard technique) can be more enjoyable and the penis is less likely to become skimpy.
Saliva is always better then nothing, but a smart girl plans ahead and always has a tube of lube at hand. He will enjoy it, when you take it out of your purse, so don’t be ashamed or embarrassed to use just a bit. Don’t overdo it, though, because that will take away most of the friction. Also great: use something that will enhance the experience. Many hand lotions have (strange) characteristics that will provide extra stimulation. Also there are special lubes that provide with a warm or a cool effect. Soap with menthol will have a similar effect. That is different with toothpaste, that will bring an extreme, almost painful experience, that some men will find pleasurable. The safe thing to do is to apply some stimulating lube.
Hold on
Sexperts from around the globe know: women like it soft and slow. But most men like it a little more firm and fast. Many women make the mistake to approach his genitals like they are the crown jewels. They take his penis between thumb and index finger like they are holding a glass of champagne. Wrong! It isn’t sexy, it just gives him the feeling like you are nog willing to hold his penis, or that his willy is too small. Give him a firm grip, like when you are holding a tennis racket en move with confidence. Use two hands. This will give him the feeling that he has a large dick. Wave it. Hit it against your other hand, your breasts, or your face.
Practice ’till you drop
Read this and learn, but don’t just read. A hand job is not as hard as it may appear. Try different movements and pay attention to his reaction. You will see the effect. If you think your boyfriend wouldn’t like you to experiment on him, use a hairbrush, or a can of hair spray, or a cucumber or a carrot.
You must at least master the basics: Slide your hand up and down and make light circular movements with your fist. So, slide downwards on one side and up on the other. Grab the penis on the bottom and let it slide to the top. At the top, close your fist (like you squeeze his head out of your hand). Wait for a second, then make slight circular movements around the head and then slide down. Repeat this a dozen of times, and make every movement last for about 10 seconds. Then move your hands fast up and down 10 times. Then start over, but this time just a little faster. Repeat this cycle until he explodes!
Should you have planned to only use your hands, then this could turn out to become a disappointment. Prevent a tennis elbow. No matter how good your hand job is, most men require something extra. So while one hands jerks him off, use the other to stroke his balls gently, or pinch his nipples. Also use your mouth. Give him small kisses on his belly or nibble his ears. Don’t forget to talk dirty to him. Tell him how good it feels, how big it is and how turned on you get by doing what you do.
Use toys
Although some men still look upon sex toys as a thread, a small (not penis-like) vibrator or masturbator might bring some extra stimulation. Use a vibrating ring or place a vibrating egg just behind his testicles. Or twist a pearl necklace around his penis. Be adventurous!
Give him the finger
A warning is in place. If you stick your finger in his rectum, just befoer he orgasms, he will either be your sex slave for life, or he will send you home and never wants to see you again. How can you tell, what to expect? well, just ask, or gently touch his anus with the tip of your finger and see how he reacts. If he gets a little nervous, tell him (or bluff your way into) that you know what you are doing and that he will experience the orgasm of his lifetime.
Just like the clitoris is more that what is on the surface, the penis doesn’t stop at the belly. By sticking your (well lubed) finger in his anus, you can massage him. The real pleasure point is about 10 centimeter inside his anus. That is the prostate or P-spot. The prostate isn’t called the male G-spot for nothing. Massaging his P-spot will give not only gove him great pleasure, it is also very healthy.
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IK wil het in het nederlands ben niet goed in het Engels.bedankt
Boven in het scherm (of op je mobiel, in het menu) kun je wisselen tussen Engels en Nederlands. Alle Engelstalige posts zijn ook in het Nederlands te vinden.