Pegging: 7 tips to do your boyfriend anally

Many men find it interesting to have anal sex with their girlfriend. You can’t blame ’em, because it can be very hot. But wouldn’t you like to let him experience how it feels? NBRplaza gives you 7 tips about pegging: anal sex with a strap-on dildo.

Pegging in 7 steps

Imagine you like to fuck your boyfriend up his ass (pegging). But you think that he (our you) are not up to it. Then it is not such a good idea to immediately buy a huge strap-on dildo and try it. That could have an opposite effect. Below you will find some preparatory steps you can take, before you can do him up his ass:

Tell him you plan to fuck him in his ass with a strap on. Say this while you touch him there with your finger tips. Even if it might take a while, the thread, or the anticipation will surely turn him on. Build the tension. It might take weeks or even months, but the mental play has begon.
Pay his anus some attention during sex. Touch him there and watch his respons. Does he squeeze his sphincter, or does he welcome your attention by spreading or pushing himself onto you?
Start small, with a finger. Tease him a lot by pushing your finger to his tiny hole and let it slide in just a little bit. Take your time. If he gets the taste, you can push your finger in some more. And if he enjoys this, twist your finger. Your goal is twofold: you want to make him get used to the feeling and pressure, and you want to make his sphincter relaxed so he can take bigger objects. Once he is used (and that doen’t necessarily have to be at the first time) you can try to use two fingers. A little lube never hurt anyone.
If your boyfriend is of the submissive kind, tell him exactly what your plans are. “I told you I was going to fuck you up your ass. This is only the beginning. I will make sure something big will fit in here. something much bigger then my fingers.” Well, you get the point.
Afraid of unsanitary issues? Use a rubber glove (medical gloves are thin and great). Or, make your boyfriend to get used to being clean before you are having sex. If he is submissive, tell him to clean himself so you can play with him as you please.
If you are both used to the idea, you can use sex toys as an intermediate step to a strap-on. Anal beads are a good first step. Or a (small) butt plug to gradually let his sphincter adjust to the feeling of getting filled.
Think of several tasks for your boyfriend to get used to anal sex. Let him wear a butt plug for some time if you are not around. Let him use a dildo or vibrator on himself and let him tell you how that felt. By the time you are going to use a strap-on dildo, he will be used to it.

Choosing a strap-on

A strap-on actually consists of two parts: the harness and the dildo. You can buy them separately – so you combine the most comfortable harness with the dildo of your choice – or, you can choose a set where the harness and dildo are in one.

If you want to know more about choosing a strap-on for pegging, read our comprehensive choice guide for strap on sex. Or go directly to our shop.