Swingers, polyamores and people who regularly date in an open relationship are also affected by the Covid-19 crisis. Because, how can you have group sex or an orgy when you’re quarantined? What teleworkers have now experienced is that there are enough tools to have a meeting with a large group of people at the same time. And with the same tools you can easily organize an online orgy.
During a lock down, creativity in people emerges. Actions to help the elderly, to support healthcare workers, or to simply combat boredom can be found online every day.
If it is not possible to meet each other face-to-face, that creativity will come in handy. Even if you are a lover of sex dates or group sex.
The history of online orgies
Online orgies are not recent. Even when the internet only just existed – I am talking about the second half of the 1990s – forms of online group sex were already to be found. I myself remember several MOOs. These were purely text-based chat rooms, where like-minded people met online. At that time, there were hardly any graphical environments and video and sound were hardly exchanged online due to the lack of bandwidth. A perfect way to present yourself differently than you are and to perform a sexual fantasy in role plays – purely with text. Cybersex was born!
Online orgies in 2020
Several swingers clubs have had to close their doors because of the pandemic. Swingers and daters have since resorted to video conferencing services such as MS Teams, Google Hangouts, or Zoom. Some of these online orgies are therefore organized by clubs, such as Playscapes in New York. Their first online orgy was well attended. After a number of shows, the guests were also visible. Some were together, others alone. See and be seen: just like in the club, but now online.
The Killing Kittens sex club in London also organized an online group sex party. They used the Zoom platform for this. All kinds of burlesque and erotic performances were shown. And guests could show their own activities. The virtual meeting lasted two hours and people could challenge each other to do things in front of the camera.
The future of online orgies
More and more online orgies of this type are expected to be organized. Especially if the quarantine period will continue for a while. The technology is widely available and it is very easy to organize such an orgy yourself.
Different sex toys, such as those of Kiiroo or We-Vibe offer the possibility to be controlled remotely via the internet or to be linked together. Not only can you see what the other person is doing, but you can even feel it.
These kinds of toys make a Bluetooth connection with your smartphone. And an app on your smartphone can ensure that you connect with someone who is somewhere else in the world. Now imagine you’re in an online orgy and people are offering to link your sex toy to theirs?
How to find an online orgy?
Online orgies can usually only be visited if you have received an invitation from the organizer. The invitations are usually sent by email and you need a link, an access code and a password to enter. The moderator often makes sure that not just everyone gets in just like that.
In practice, this means that you have prior contact with the organizer or moderator. My advice is to use platforms like Fetlife and SDC to get in touch with others, who may organize such online orgies.
Before participating in an online orgy, it is wise to comply with the same rules for yourself as when visiting a physical orgy. Ask yourself about your (online) security and privacy, for example. Are there any specific rules to participate, such as wearing a mask. What costs are involved?
If you want to organize an orgy yourself, think carefully about which platform you want to use. Some platforms, such as Skype and Google Hangouts, cannot display more than 10 cameras at a time by default. It may be wise to use a different account for your online orgy than the one you normally use for – say – your business appointments.
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