Oral sex is something that may not be for everyone. For example, it recently appeared that only 35% of male straight millenniums sometimes spoils their girlfriend with oral sex (I know, WTF?). Even though many women cum easier by oral sex, than by penetration alone. But even if you are an enthusiast, there is always the question: “cunnilingus, how do you do it safely?“
Because, there is a risk that you will get an STD, such as herpes genitalis, syphilis, chlamydia or gonorrhea, by unsafe oral sex. There is also a risk of infecting by HPV through oral sex. HPV can cause genital warts and is associated with throat cancer. And saliva could also be a cause of fungal infections. To prevent all this, oral dams exsist, but be honest, who uses them? So, at Luxurity, they must have thought ‘let’s make panties from the material of dental dams’. Then you can have oral sex with your panties on!
Thumbs up, or down?
On the one hand, I want to shout that you run a risk with oral sex. And that you have to watch out and protect yourself. But I also know that practically no one I know uses a condom on blowjobs and even fewer people use a dental dam with cunnilingus.
A dental dam – for those who don’t know these – is a sheet of latex that ensures that there is a temporary barrier between the mouth and the vulva. They are not often used, and that is mainly because they are just very awkward. You need two hands to keep the piece tight and in place.
And that is why a panties made of extremely thin latex on the one hand is quite a smart idea. The intention is that you use the panties one time only. The material is so thin that you can have oral sex without losing sensitivity. And because it’s a panties, it just stays in place.
But yet … mêh
Let me start by saying that I have not used such panties yet. In fact, I haven’t even had one in my hands yet. And I must also admit that I have never used a dental dam. Still, I think there is little chance that I will use these panties. Why?
Anyone who has ever worn rubber or latex clothing knows that while it feels horny (because of its tight fit), it is also a hassle to put it on. I imagine that this is no different with such panties. That also means that you do not want to wear these knickers all day. Only when the time is there, you are probably going to remove such a Luxurity panties from its package. A bit like that with a condom. And with a condom many people find it a nasty interruption, let alone that you should try to get such sticky panties over your thick thighs.
Anyway, you are prepared to make some sacrifices for the sake of safe sex. So after that interruption and the awkward – and anything but sexy – moment of putting on of these panties, your partner gets to work. But then you still miss something: The moisture of the saliva. It’s the moist from oral sex that makes it so damn good. Right? And so you grab a jar of lubricant and try to get a lump between the panties and your sensitive spots. “Sorry partner, but I insist!”
After another break, your partner continues where he or she left off. And then comes my next objection. Because oral sex is – if you ask me – far too often is seen as ‘foreplay‘. An act that you perform before fucking. So if you like hot ‘sloppy’ sex like me, the boundaries between foreplay and the main attraction fade away. I like to interrupt penetration and alternate with oral sex. If you fuck with a condom, it might be better in some cases to put a new condom on, but that is not always necessary. These panties, however … will they survive such a go-down-fuck-blow-munch-fuck-anilingus-fuck-eat-routine?! I doubt it.
In short, I say ‘nice try’, but not spent on me. Do you want to try a Luxurity panties? Then take a look at their site. And let me know if my prejudices were justified, or whether I was completely wrong.
You cannot use the Luxurity panties for penetration (penis in vagina). They come in three flavors: vanilla, strawberry and mint.
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