Today we received the following question on the editorial page: “I cum best when I have to pee. Is that weird?”
It may seem strange that you get aroused when you need to pee. Especially if the idea of peeing itself doesn’t excite you at all. Yet it’s not so strange at all.
Horny from a full bladder
A full bladder can cause pressure on the sensitive parts of the vulva, such as the internal branches of the clitoris, the cervix and the G-spot. In addition, the pelvic floor muscles play a role in this “phenomenon”. These are the muscles you use to hold your pee, but they are also muscles that contract when you have an orgasm. When you hold your pee, these muscles may have the same tension as when you have an orgasm. This is a completely normal phenomenon that occurs in many women.
Some women are even able to have an orgasm while urinating. To do this, they first hold up their pee for as long as possible. During urination they do cone exercises (tightening of the pelvic floor muscles). There are also women who orgasm when they urinate after sex. Their genitalia are extra sensitive and peeing causes stimulation that can cause a new orgasm.
The urge to urinate during sex
Conversely, during sex you may also suddenly feel the need to urinate. When a penis penetrates the vagina, it can cause extra pressure on the bladder, making you feel like you have a full bladder.
Having an orgasm while urinating is not unhealthy or weird. However, it is not healthy to deliberately hold your pee up for (too) long on a regular basis. This can cause you to feel the urge less well, resulting in incontinence. It also increases the risk of a bladder infection and kidney stones. Therefore, always listen carefully to your body.
Not pee sex
The physical feeling that makes you horny when you have a full bladder has nothing to do with pee sex. In pee sex, you get excited by the idea of peeing on someone. People who practice pee sex get excited by seeing, smelling, feeling or tasting urine. This often involves some form of humiliation.
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