For some people this may be an open door, but given the search terms by which NBRplaza is found, we still have to conclude that many people have doubts about buying a vibrator and then using this piece of consumer electronics. Therefore, below we provide some tips for anyone new to the vibrator phenomenon.
To be perfectly honest, our first reaction was, “Seriously?” After all, it’s just a matter of turning the thing on and then applying it to the intended location. But when we thought about it a little longer, we came to the unanimous conclusion that it’s actually a pretty good question: how do you actually use a vibrator? How do you make sure you get the most out of your purchase and are completely satisfied after use.
Everyone is different
We’re not going to tell you which spots to use the vibrator on, how fast, how long, how hard or why. That is entirely up to you. Everyone is different and some like clitoral stimulation and others like penetration. Some like soft vibrations and others like deep intense vibrations. So there is no best way. The most common mistake is buying a vibrator because your girlfriend said it’s a great thing. But what she likes doesn’t have to please you at all!
Most sex toys are designed with a particular purpose in mind, though. For example, some sex toys are specially designed to better stimulate the G-spot. Other toys simulate oral sex. And still others are specifically designed for anal sex or prostate stimulation. But that doesn’t mean that you can only use such toys for that particular purpose. Many people are particularly resourceful and soon find that you can use toys in a variety of ways. And that’s totally OK.
One of the most popular types of sex toys that has gained immense popularity in recent years is the rabbit sex toy. Rabbit sex toys are known for their dual-action design, providing simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris and the G-spot. Rabbit vibrators can provide users with a heightened level of pleasure and satisfaction. These toys often feature rotating beads or pearls in the shaft to massage the G-spot, while the external rabbit ears provide intense clitoral stimulation, resulting in powerful blended orgasms for many users.
If there is any best way to use a sex toy, it is by experimenting with it. Try different things and experience what works best for you. Just hold that G-spot vibrator against your clit, or against his glans. Does that feel good? Then you’re doing it right!
Precautions
Of course, there are a few maxims that you must observe. And those rules, in particular, have to do with hygiene and safety.
Never use toys made of porous material anally (bacteria will nest in them)
Do not use toys anal that do not have a thicker end. Prevent the toy from slipping in whole and you have to go to the emergency room to have it surgically removed.
Do not go from your anus into your vagina with a toy. Prevent bacteria from the back from getting to the front.
If you use sex toys together, be aware of the risks of STDs.
Clean your sex toy properly.
Anyway, you get the idea.
Tip of your nose
Modern sex toys are extremely versatile. It is usually not a matter of turn on and go. There are usually several modes and options on your new sex toy. Therefore, before you start using it for the first time, it is good to get familiar with all the buttons and modes. Hold your toy against the mouse of your hand and experience how the different modes feel. Or, even better, hold the vibrator against the tip of your nose. That will give you a good indication of how it will feel against your very most sensitive spot!
Read the manual, because sometimes you have to press the buttons a certain way to activate special features. For example, we recently tested a toy where you had to hold down the on button for three seconds to activate pulsing.
How to get started?
As with “normal” sex, a little foreplay is never wasted. The same goes for your vibrator. Of course it’s nice that your vibrator has deep intense vibrations, but many women don’t like that at all against their clitoris (and certainly not to begin with).
Therefore, always start with the lowest setting. That way you get used to the sensation and slowly get into the mood. The beauty of arousal is that your body is able to endure more and more. So build up the intensity slowly. If you try to stimulate yourself too quickly with high intensity, you may get a “numb” feeling (and then you will become anything but aroused).
Be creative
Most vibrators and other sex toys are rather obvious in their use. But vary things around. Use it on other erogenous zones. Hold the vibrator against your nipples, your hips, your lower abdomen or anywhere that feels nice. Especially vibrators with deep intense vibrations can serve as excellent massagers for tired muscles.
Many descriptions of sex toys assume that you are completely familiar with your anatomy. Where is your clitoris and G-spot and how do you best pamper them? Explore your own body and discover what you like!
Lube
We can’t say it often enough: use lube. Even if you think of yourself as getting sufficiently wet, lubricant can increase the pleasure quite a bit. Not only when you use the vibrator for penetration, but lubricant can also serve for external stimulation. A plastic vibrator causes quite a bit of friction, and especially with prolonged use, this can lead to irritation. A few drops of lubricant can help you enjoy it longer.
It is always safe to use water-based lubricant. Silicone-based lubricant may affect silicone sex toys.
Together
Many people think of a sex toy primarily as a thing you use for solo sex. That’s unfortunate. Almost all sex toys are excellent for use together. Your partner can use the toy with you (or you with your partner), or you can slide a vibrator between you to enjoy the vibrations together. Couples vibrators are even designed specifically for that purpose. Playing together can increase the fun quite a bit, both during foreplay and during fucking.
Teach your partner which positions on the vibrator you like and which you don’t. Put on a show, too! This is not only educational, but also bloody hot to see.
Don’t be afraid or intimidated by your toy, but be open-minded and try. We are convinced you won’t regret it.
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