Sex with one man can be great for a woman. So how about sex with two? If you are a woman (or a couple) and you ever fantasized about a threesome, than the thought of a DP (a double penetration) might have crossed your mind. In porn movies it looks so easy. But how do you perform a double penetration?
What is a DP
A threesome with one woman and two men is a very hot fantasy for many people. Four hands, two mouths and two penises to bring the woman to a climax. What else do you want?
Strictly speaking, a double penetration (DP) is when a person is penetrated by two other people. Popularly, we call it a DP when a woman is simultaneously penetrated both vaginally and anally. But in fact, when a woman has a penis in the mouth and in the vagina at the same time, you may call it a DP too. Or when she has two penises simultaneously in the vagina. And neither is gender really important at all.
For the sake of simplicity, I further assume that we are talking about a woman having sex with two men, one of whom penetrates her vaginally and the other penetrates her anally. But don’t let your imagination stop you from me.
Positions
There are mainly three variants for a DP. First, one man sits or lays down and the woman straddles him. The second man takes place behind the woman and penetrates her from behind. In this position, the second man has the most freedom of movement. Therefor the emphasis in this position is on anal penetration. This position works best if the first man takes place on the edge of the bed or on a chair or couch (with his legs down). The second man kneels between the legs of the first man.
The second variant is when the first man sits or lays down and the woman gets on top of him with her back turned towards him. Now the first man penetrates her from behind and the second man penetrates her vagina. Contrary to the first variant, the vagina gets more stimulated in this position. In this position it is also best when the first man sits on the edge of a bed or on a couch or chair.
The first two positions aren’t very easy to perform, but the third variant is even more difficult. Now both men are standing up with the woman in between them. She can wrap her legs around the arms of the men. They now lift her up and can move her up and down with their arms. Very exhausting, but also very tantra.
What to consider?
First of all it is obvious that the woman must like the idea of getting both holes filled at the same time. It goes without saying that she must like anal sex. Before you invite a third party into the bedroom, you can test this by using a vibrator or dildo to fill ‘the other hole’ when you have sex with your partner. Both the woman and the man can experience the feeling.
The men will get into close contact with each other. This is something that your partner must take into account. The anterior wall is very thin and both men will feel their penises rub against each other. For homophobic men this is a guaranteed way to lose their erection. Also their legs will touch and it is likely that their testicles will slap.
The men must be patience and controlled. If they are going to pump away instantly, it won’t work. First they have to build it up slowly and let the woman determine the pace.
Hygiene is also extremely important. Never penetrate the vagina after you’ve penetrated the anus. That is asking for a cystitis or another infection. First clean up or change condoms.
Finally, it is wise to have plenty of condoms and lube at hand if you want to perform a double penetration.
Too much trouble?
A threesome can be too much of a hassle. Because, who should you invite? Is it really a good idea to ask your partner’s best friend for a double penetration? And a complete stranger is quite something else. You would like to have a connection between all three persons involved. So in short: trouble.
So if you think a threesome is too much trouble, but you do want to experience getting both holes filled at the same time, consider using a dildo.
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the idea of DP is very stunning, but definitely could be difficult to organize in real life