A horror for one, but an ultimate way to achieve an overwhelming orgasm for others: fist fucking. Does it appeal to you, but you have no idea how to do it? Read on and learn how to fist fuck with finesse. It goes without saying that the following is NSFW.
What is Fisting?
Fisting, or fist fucking is a sexual form in which you penetrate your partner with a part of your hand or with the entire hand. Sometimes, in more extreme cases, both hands are applied. Fist fucking can be done vaginally, or anally and sometimes in a combination of the two. In this article we stick to vaginal fist fucking.
Fist fucking: can it be done?
Contrary of popular belief, fist fucking is in principle not dangerous. It is also not true that it can only be done if the woman is already completely lived out. The vagina consists of tissue that is capable of being tight enough for one finger, but wide enough to carry a baby’s head. But there are questions of hygiene. Wash your hands, and cut your nails. Often, the skin of the vagina wall can tear a little bit, causing blood to be released. We don’t have to tell you about the risks involved with blood and AIDS or other STDs, now do we?
IN order to have a memorable fisting experience you need a couple of things:
- A lot of patience
- Latex gloves (not necessary)
- Lube (water based)
To start off with the latter: use plenty of lube. If you think you’ve added enough, add some more. Some people use a half jar of fisting gel at a time. Make sure you cover all your fingers and your complete hand in lube. And don’t forget to add a lot to the vagina as well. Add some to the labia and put some in the vagina.
Asume it will be messy. So don’t do it on your expensive suede couch and place plenty of towels for her to sit on. Oh, and before we forget: if you are not into a golden shower, have her go to the toilet upfront. There might be a lot of pressure on her bladder that forces her to pee.
Start with warming her up. Don’t just force your clenched fist inside, but built it up slowly. Some women are more receptive if they already have experienced multiple orgasms. So, go for it! What might help is giving the woman a vibrator to stimulate her clitoris, so you can focus on your hands.
Then start with two fingers. When you add the third or fourth you are beginning to stretch. Stretching can give a burning sensation. If she feels that burning sensation, stop and pause. Let her get used to it and listen to her reaction. She is the one that determines how far you can go.
Het oprekken kan een branderig gevoel veroorzaken. Als je meisje dat voelt, is het verstandig om even te pauzeren. Laat haar langzaam wennen en luister naar haar reactie. Zij is degene die bepaalt hoever jij kunt gaan!
If all goes well, carefully add another finger. Then try your palm en finally your thumb. What always works is placing your fingers in some kind of point, so your pink, index finger, middle finger and ring finger together as a cone. Then twist and turn your wrist. Let her lay down on her back. Start with your palm down and twist clockwise until your palm fases up. Be careful for your knuckles. If you do this to roughly, she will experience pain.
If all goes well, and the lady is relaxed and excited, it might even occur that your hand is sucked in even until the wrist. This is a good time to relax and pause again, especially if this is the first time she experiences this.
Now, don’t go pounding in and out like a madman, but built it up slowly. Some women experience an intense orgasme and even start to squirt if the fisting is done right. So you better put on your goggles. For the first time it is recommended to just hold your hand still and have her orgasm by stimulating her clitoris. But if she is really into it, you can start to move or even extracting your hand completely and penetrate her again. Depending on how she feels you can use a little bit more force. Always keep your hand in a cone shape.
Especially the first few times, you shouldn’t pull out at once. It’s like opening up a champagne bottle. It is a misconception that it should pop. Pull out slowly and with a lot of patience. Warm water could help to smoothen and cleanse.
Techniques for the more experienced
Gotten the taste of it? Try to make things more fun with twisting moves, using your knuckles to massage her G-spot and vaginal walls. The most hilarious technique I have ever heard of, was when the man did like he was stuffing a turkey for thanksgiving and she made accompanying turkey sounds.
Fist fucking is not something you do on the first date or with a one night stand. It is necessary that you completely trust each other. If you misuse that trust, your chances on any future date will be far gone. It is best if the owner of ‘the hand’ is not the type ‘construction worker’. Fisting is often done by two women, because they often have a smaller hand.
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