Actually (or finally) you really want a dildo. But if you subsequently visit a physical or online sex shop, you will be intimidated by the overwhelming choice of phalluses, fake penises and fantasy objects in all kinds of colors, textures and materials. Choice stress strikes immediately and you walk out of the store without a purchase. That is why NBRplaza helps you a hand.

A dildo or a vibrator?

The big difference between a dildo and a vibrator is that a dildo has no motor and therefore does not vibrate. As a result, dildos are primarily intended for insertion. So only choose a dildo if you like penetration and the feeling of being ‘filled’. Some vibrators can also be inserted, but their main ‘feature’ is that they can vibrate. Whether you choose a dildo or a vibrator is mainly dependent on your personal preference.

Ask yourself if you can get off from penetration alone. If you only get an orgasm from stimulating the clitoris, then a dildo may not be for you. But if you enjoy being simultaneously penetrated and stimulating your clitoris, consider getting a (small) vibrator for external use and a dildo for internal use. With a dildo that has the correct curvature, you can stimulate the G-spot, and for some people, it’s a great way to orgasm.

There are also dildos for anal use. If you have a vulva, a dildo can also indirectly stimulate your G-spot and A-spot in the vagina. If you have a penis, you can stimulate the prostate through the anus.

The size: bigger is not always better!

Perhaps the temptation is to go for the biggest one when choosing your first dildo. Before you do that, think about the best (penetration) experience you have had. How big was the size of that penis? Or – if you’ve never had a penis-in-vagina experience – try using a few fingers or an object to estimate which size is most comfortable for you.

More important than the length is the outline (thickness) and shape (structure, curve, head).

Material: safety and feeling

There are dildos made of different materials. Each material has its own advantages. Which material you choose depends on your requirements in terms of safety, but also which feeling is important to you.

Materials that are not porous are the easiest to clean. Glass and metal are non-porous and feel heavy and cold. However, they are also easy to heat up or cool down further and are therefore also suitable for temperature play. Also dildos made of ABS (hard plastic) are not porous and hard, but they are a lot lighter. Silicone feels softer and is also non-porous.

Avoid dildos made from jelly. This material contains ‘phthalates’, a material that is toxic and carcinogenic.

Don’t forget your lube

A good lube is always a good idea, especially with dildos. Most materials are non-slip by themselves and therefore cause a lot of friction with the skin. So to make the dildo feel smoother, it is best to combine it with a lubricant.

As a rule, you can use all types of lubricant. However, there are two special rules that you must observe: First, do not choose a silicone lubricant for a silicone dildo, but rather a water-based lubricant. And if you want to use the dildo anally, take a lubricant especially for anal use.

Our pick: top 10 dildos

The Bouncer is a unique Fun Factory dildo. This dildo is equipped with 3 metal balls that move back and forth during use. This provides a special kinetic stimulation during movement. Bouncer is made entirely of soft silicone material that feels great on the skin. Its flat base can be used as a strong suction cup for hands-free fun. The Bouncer is 18 cm long and 4 cm in diameter. Because the Bouncer has a wide base, it is also suitable for anal penetration.

Are you looking for a dildo for both vaginal and anal use, then the Anal Probe Dildo No. 1 very suitable. This dildo is specially designed for massaging the prostate but is also very suitable as a G-spot dildo. The dildo is flexible and adapts to the shape of your body. The silicone material feels soft against the skin and the curved shaft and pointed tip ensure that you experience maximum pleasure. Make sure you always clean the dildo thoroughly after anal use, because bacteria from the anus can cause infections in the vagina. Rinse the dildo well under running water and use a toy cleaner or mild soap if necessary.

The Squeeze-It Phallic Dildo is a beautifully designed dildo with a strong suction cup. It is suitable for use with a strap-on harness and easy to use. The realistic glans provides an extra stimulus during penetration. The flexible toy is easy to clean with toy cleaner and lukewarm water. This dildo has an insertion depth of 15.5 cm and is 3.8 cm in diameter at the thickest place. It is also nice and heavy (228 gr). The dildo is made of soft silicone.

One of my absolute favorites is this Icicles No. 38. Elegant, luxurious, and handcrafted with astonishing attention to detail. This luxurious glass dildo with flogger is very versatile. The hypoallergenic glass is non-porous and body safe. If you take good care of it, it will last a lifetime. The flogger is made of bull leather. The strips feel soft but are heavy enough to deliver a heavy blow! The glass handle is hand blown and has a beautiful texture. As a result, it not only looks very nice, but also feels extra good when penetrated.

The Hamsa dildo from Prisms Erotic Glass looks stylish and is completely transparent. It is also very multifunctional. It can be used as an anal dildo, G-spot dildo and P-spot dildo. This makes it suitable for everyone. Glass toys have the advantage that they are easy to heat up and cool in water. Perfect for Temperature Play. This dildo is also very easy and quick to clean with a toy cleaner or lukewarm water. The Hamsa dildo includes a velvety soft storage bag to keep your toy safe and clean.

The Njoy Pure Wand is a very luxurious G-spot and prostate dildo with a legendary status. According to many, this is the best dildo there is! The toy is made entirely of metal and therefore feels heavier and smoother than any other sex toy. The metal dildo has a curved shaft and 2 spherical ends. Each end can be used for penetration and P-spot and G-spot stimulation. The dildo can be used with all types of lubricant and can be cleaned quickly and thoroughly. The toy comes in a very luxurious storage box with a soft satin lining. The Njoy Pure Wand is 19.5 cm long and the largest ball is 3.7 cm in diameter.

This Fun Wand is also from Njoy. The Fun Wand from Njoy is a metal dildo. The dildo can be used on both sides. The curved design makes the dildo ideal for G-spot stimulation and prostate stimulation. The Fun Wand can be used with silicone and water based lubricants and is perfect for Temperature Play. The metal feels cold, but can easily be heated with warm water. You can also make the dildo even colder by holding it under the cold tap. The Fun Wand comes in a nice box with a soft satin lining. The dildo is 19 cm long and at its thickest point it is 2.6 cm in diameter.

If you want to use a dildo with a partner, consider a strap-on set. This set consists of an adjustable harness and a silicone dildo. The harness can be worn by people with a maximum hip circumference of 110 cm. The straps are easy to adjust so that it always fits. The silicone dildo has a nice compact size, making it suitable for the novice user. Don’t forget to use a water-based lubricant. The dildo has an insertion depth of 13.5 cm and is 2.9 cm in diameter.

Or enjoy together with your partner with the Evoke strap-on. This is a so-called strappless strap-on, or a strap-on dildo without straps. The short end of this strap-on is inserted vaginally and remains in place due to its curved shape. Then the long end can be used to penetrate the partner anally or vaginally. The strap-on also has a ribbed part that provides wonderful stimulation of the wearer’s clitoris. This toy is equipped with 2 motors that can be operated separately from each other, so that both partners benefit optimally from the vibrations. A total of 3 speeds and 5 vibration patterns are available. The strap-on is also completely waterproof and can easily be charged with the supplied USB cable. The insertion depth of the dildo is 15.2 cm and the diameter is 3.8 cm.

Bück Dich: Bend over! A nice name for a paddle. Because the intention of the flat part is of course that you give someone some nice spanking. The multifunctional toy combines 2 exciting toys to give your evening an exciting twist. One end can be used as a paddle. The other end is a silicone dildo with the famous Fun Factory ridges. The Bück Dich is made entirely of top quality silicone for a carefree sensation. Use it with water-based lubricant. Also read our review.

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