Why aren’t there beautiful words in Dutch for certain acts, as in English? I mean, a ‘blowjob’ is oral sex and a ‘handjob’ means jerking off. But there is no proper translation for ‘footjob’? Dutch porn sites categorize it as ‘jerking off with feet’.Yet, that doesn’t completely cover it, does it? So, what exactly is a footjob and how exactly does that work?
What is a ‘footjob’?
That Dutch porn sites aren’t far from the truth, of course. A footjob is like jerking off, only not with hands but with feet. The idea is that a man puts his penis between the soles of the feet, or between the toes. The partner can move the feet up and down, or the man can thrust between the feet for sexual stimulation.
It goes without saying that this must be appealing for persons with a foot fetish. But even if you are not especially turned on by feet, a well performed footjob is very pleasurable.
How to give a great footjob?
Who isn’t familiar with the situation where a woman kicks off her (high heeled) shoes during diner and starts rubbing her bare foot in the crotch of her dinner companion? When you have well groomed feet, men will go nuts. They will adore your feet, kiss them, and it will be the pinnacle when you rub your feet in his crotch. But how can you make a footjob heavenly?
- Use lube. Lots of lube.
Your feet and your partners penis are sensitive body parts.The friction between the two can get uncomfortable. With some lube you can make it nice and slippery. You can also use massage oil, but your feet will become really squiggly (and you will make a face plant when you make that inevitable trip to the toilet later). That’s why we advice water absed lube. It works great, but it is not greasy and can be washed off easily. - Be creative with your feet
The easiest way to give a footjob, is by placing your soles together and take the penis in between. Try pressing your heels and toes together for extra friction. But there are plenty other ways of doing this. You can also let the penis slide between your toes. - Wiggle those toes
By wiggling (all) your toes around his penis, you will give him a great massage. Consider to play not only with his penis, but rub your feet also against other parts of his body (breast, legs, nipples). Some men even enjoy nibbling on your toes. - Move the legs
Try not to move just the feet, but use your entire legs. Do this from the hips. This will be very exhausting, but it will make the best out of your massage. - Let him ‘fuck’ your feet’
When all of this makes you tired, let him do the work. Bend your legs (it will make enable you to absorb) and let him thrust in between your feet. Let him determine the pace. - Talk
This is kind of a slam dunk. Communication is key in sex. Ask him if he likes it, and talk dirty to him.
Rome for experimenting
There is plenty of room for experimenting. Especially when you are sitting opposite of each other. Bend over and use your hands too, or (when you you are flexible) your mouth. In short: Involve your feet in your love making.
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