Here at NBRplaza we try to familiarize you with the different forms of sexuality, which are generally considered ‘different’.
Now there are different ways you can strike in an erotic way with your hands, but also with various objects that may or may not be intended for that purpose. Think of whips, belts or basic household equipment. But what sensation do they trigger? And – appearance does matter – what kind of markings does it leave behind?
A word in advance
We cannot say it often enough: BDSM is not so much about inflicting pain, but about the game of power and submission. Combine pain with pleasure by doing it with respect and by respecting each other’s safety.
BDSM is practiced by people of all ages and orientation. Communicate with each other about your wishes and limits. Agree on a ‘safeword’ to be able to immediately terminate the session when the limits have been reached.
The list
The possibilities are endless. Use your imagination. In addition to your hands, belt, whips, canes, bats and straws, there are countless instruments that you can use. It depends on your taste, preference and pain threshold which suits your game best.
In the list below we have tried to give an indication of the immediate pain that you are experiencing, and the mark that the object leaves behind. Because of course that also depends on the strength with which you are beating. The list is not exhaustive, but gives you an indication that can stimulate your imagination and perhaps give you ideas. Nothing prevents you from switching from one object to another during a session.
Of course there are many more different objects of varying materials and structures available. Have fun!
Some tips on spanking
We emphasize that a short blow (with a smaller swing) arrives less hard and therefore hurts less. Sometimes small short ticks, which are administered with a fast rhythm, can have a special teasing effect.
Some objects require a greater distance and a longer stroke. For a blow with a bullwhip or a flogger, an arm movement such as with a tennis (from the arm) or badminton racket (from the wrist) is required.
By bending the body of the recipient (for example, by placing him or her over on object), the skin stretches and that increases the pain sensation.
In addition to the buttocks, the breasts, back and genitals are places that you can slap. But we recommend that you build that up carefully (certainly the first time). Also first discuss whether the receiving party wants that.
Also consider to restrain the receiving party. This way you add an extra element of control.
The more you alternate with objects and materials, the more you will appreciate the differences. Especially the difference in texture, the swishing sound through the air, the smell of the material (leather, wood); every object has its own sensation and pleasures.
But also the discoloration of the skin and the type and length of the feeling differs. Sometimes that feeling can last for days.
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