For most people, exchanging bodily fluids during sex is just collateral damage. But there are some, that make it a true fetish. In some sex shops you can find different products especially for those who think these activities are a highlight, more than a side effect. And if you have interest in this kind of play, it is important to know how to do it safe.
What is Bodily Fluid Play?
When two people are in an exclusive relationship and have agreed to exchange bodily fluids only between each other (and agreed to have unprotected sex, without condoms or any other barrier), this is also called ‘fluid bonded’. But this fetish goed beyond that. For these people it is all about worshiping, receiving, or consuming the bodily fluids of their partner. It is the ultimate and profound love declaration. It can manifest itself in different ways. One will see it as dominance or submission, but it can also be a big turn on because of the taboo.
You can exchange different bodily fluids, like sperm, urine, vaginal secretion, saliva, menstrual blood, lactation, tears and even vomit. The most common is a fetish for sperm, urine and vaginal fluids, though.
The most important thing you must know with this fetish, is which fluids will have a risk in contracting an STI. Bacterial and viral infections (gonorrhea, syphilis, chlamydia, HPV, HIV, herpes) can be transmitted through pre-cum, sperm, vaginal secretion and blood. HIV can also be transmitted through breast milk. This makes this fetish not without risks. That’s why it is important that you and your partner are tested and are free from any STIs.
Exchanging sperm can be a turn on for both the giver as the receiver, even in less extreme forms. Many people like sperm on their body, face, breasts, ass, or genitals. In porn movies it has become so mainstream that it is almost impossible to imagine one without the money shot at the end. Sperm is the ultimate result of your partners pleasure that you have given him, so why not worship that?
Others are turned on when w woman squirts. But also the scent of vaginal secretion is enough to get some people go crazy.
Urophilia is much more common than many people might believe; whether it is a golden shower (peeing over someone) or drinking someone’s urine. It can be a true addition in the relation between a dominant and a submissive in a BDSM play. For both the giver as the receiver it can be very intimate and a big turn on. The Latrine Extreme Funnel Gag is ideal to force a willing sub to drink bodily fluids. No drup will be wasted.
For many people, this fetish is a bridge too far, but that is part of the attraction for those who practise this fetish. The taboo makes it erotic. Just because others are disgusted by it makes it all the more attractive. That’s why it is good to know that there are several products that you can use in this kind of fetish play. Next to the funnel gag, there are for instance also hollow butt plugs, special for pee sex.
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