We all think it is quite normal when a man and woman use a vibrator together when they make love. But this is not the case with masturbators. These are a kind of sleeve, that go around the penis and are usually used by persons with a penis to masturbate with. And – yes – that is a pity. Because, why would you not use a masturbator when you are together? It makes handjobs and blowjobs so much more fun!
An unforgettable deep throat
Does your partner like a deep throat, but are you less enthusiastic to let his penis shove all the way in the back of your throat? Why don’t you use a ‘stroker’ that has an opening on both sides? Apply some lube and put it around your partner’s penis. Now you can lick the head or suck it a bit, while you stroke the entire length of his penis with the masturbator. For him, this will feel like a deep throat, without you having to gag!
Take a masturbation sleeve, like the Mood Stroker, or an ‘Open sleeve’ masturbator.
Oral without a mouth
Many men like the feeling of oral sex. But not everyone (always) enjoys a penis in their mouths. Try using a masturbator to match that experience. Sit or lay in a position, like you would when giving oral. For instance, kneel before your partner, or do a position 69. In stead of taking him in the mouth, lube up his penis and shove a masturbator on it.
You could use a Vulcan Frost Stroker for example, or a Tenga Air Squeeze (also read our review).
Jerk off 2.0
Sex is so much more than penis-in-vagina. Agree? Right! A hand job is an important part of having sex. Maybe, he used a vibrator to stimulatie your clitoris? Well, why wouldn’t you do the same on him (but differently)? Take a vibrating masturbator to upgrade your hand job!
Particularly fit for hand jobs are the Pocket Pulse III, for example, or teh heating Satisfyer Heat.
Not how it is supposed to be used
Many people don’t know, that you can turn a Tenga Egg inside out and use it as an attachment to a wand vibrator. Each Tenga Egg is made of soft flexible material. And the price won’t be much of a hurdle. A Tenga Egg only costs €7,95. So, just buy a couple of them. And you can treat each other on some big fun with these nice eggs.
‘Dry humping’
There can be many reasons not to have PiV (penis-in-vagina) sex. Perhaps it’s that time of the month, or maybe you currently have an infection. Or you just don’t feel like it, or you are into something new and exciting. Whatever. If you want to have the intimacy of sex, a masturbator can mimic a vagina.
he Fun Factory Manta is a masturbator that vibrates heavily. In the right position, is can stimulate both your clitoris as his penis (read our review). Or the Satisfyer Partner Multifun 3; that one also has a kind of ‘wrench for the penis and a vibrator to stimulate you (read our review).
Let your fantasy run wild. What is hotter than mutual masturbation, while you watch each other? Basically, let’s just get rid of the taboo on masturbators! And see what new opportunities arise.
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