Many people have a bucket list; a list of things to do before they die. Some people however, have a fucketlist. This includes sexual acts that they would like to do once in their lifetimes. Usually, this is not a list of vanilla stuf. And that is why we discuss the most special things that people have on their fucketlist. In this episode we will discuss Bukkake.
Bukkake as the ultieme humiliation?
Bukkake (pronounce: Boe-kah- kè) is a Japanese term that is used for a sex act in which multiple persons ejaculate over one other person. The number of men can vary from two to several hundreds. Bukkake is often seen in porn movies, for example as the ending of a gangbang, or as a form of extreme humiliation and submissiveness. The goal is to cover as big part of the body of the receiving party with cum as possible.
Some receivers are tied up in shibari bondage. But usually the receiving party is kneeled down. The men often stand in a circle around the receiving partij.
The woord bukkake comes from the Japanese verb bakkakeru which means splash. The Japanese word can be split into a prefix and a verb; butsu (ぶつ) and kakeru (掛ける). Butsu is a prefix which comes from the word ‘buchi’, which literally means ‘hit’ or ‘strike’, but as a prefix it worksa as an enhancer to the verb. Kakeru in this context means ‘shower’ or ‘pour’. The word bukkake in Japanese is often used to describe heavy pouring, for instance when broth is poured over a bowl of noodles.
The histroy of bukkake
Bukkake came up in the 1980s in Japanese porn movies. According to some that had to do with the heavily censorship in Japan. It is required to blur genitals in porn. That shifted the emphasis on the face and body of the actors. Because penetration was not allowed to be visualized, producers looked for other ways to show cum shots, without breaking the laws. Sperm didn’t need to be censored.
In 1998 it had become such a popular porn genre, producer Kazuhiko Matsumoto registered the term bukkake as a trademark.
At the end of the last century bukkake spread to the USA and Europe. In those days porn started to become more extreme and double penetrations and gang bangs became trending. The Western bukkake films differed from those from Japanse. In the Japanese films, the ladies that were ejeculated on were often dressed as a schoolgirl or office woman and they were humiliated by the many men that came over their faces. In Western films there is no reference to humiliation. The women in those films seem to enjoy it when a (large) group of men cover them with semen.
Variations to bukkake
Apart from the humiliating ‘sperm showers’, there is also a variant that is called gokkun. The men in this genre don’t come over the woman, but ejaculate in a cup or bowl that is then being drunk by someone.
Also, the genre has spread to gay movies, in which multiple men come over one other man. And there are ‘reversed bukkake’ films and lesbian films, in which a group of women squirt over someone.
Bukkake and gokkun are not very popular in the West. Probably that has to do with the clear humiliation of women in these films, that does not appeal to many viewers. Also, cumshots are seldom the main attraction in Western porn movies.
Why men like Bukkake
There are men that find it arousing to watch other men climax. As the viewer (of porn) he can identify with the actor.
But more likely, the man likes the submissive or slutty role of the receiving party. It is a form of dominance to ejaculate over the face of a woman. And the women who enjoy being humiliated by many men is the ultimate sex object.
Why the receiver likes bukkake
Opponents of the genre believe bukkake is a glorification of group rape, inasmuch that the women in the (Japanese) movies seldom reach orgasm.
Yet, there are persons (men and women) who enjoy being ‘used’ for sex. These persons make themselves available on sex parties for ‘cum baths’, ‘cum ditch’, gang bangs and even as ‘party pig’ (someone who is just there to be used by anybody just for their own pleasure). For them the pleasure is to see others enjoy themselves. Also they may enjoy the warmth on their skin. The mental aspect of being worshiped by a large group of men, and worshiping their sperm, can be extremely arousing.
Many women who experienced a bukkake, for example as closure of a gang bang, don’t agree that it was humiliating. They often felt empowered and risen above the men, because they where (both literally and figuratively) at the center of attention.
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