An important reason why couples in a long-term relationship have less and less sex, often is because sex becomes boring. And that is due to repetition. Always the same position, the same rituals. Sex becomes predictable. So, to make sex fun again, you have to break that pattern. An easy way to do that is to take sex out of the bedroom.
Having sex in other places around the house opens up completely new possibilities. New sex positions, new ways to use sex toys. Things you may not have thought of or experienced before. Below we give a number of tips.
If you can’t stand the heat, stay out of the kitchen
Besides the bedroom, the kitchen is arguably the best place to have sex at home. If only because you have all kinds of things on hand in the kitchen that you can use for sex. Everywhere you look you see furniture, cooking utensils and foods that are extremely suitable.
The kitchen counter or kitchen table has the perfect height for all kinds of fun positions. And they are often sturdy enough to hold your weight. Do you prefer to use a sex toy, instead of the kitchen utensils that are already there? Then there is always a socket nearby where you can plug in a wand vibrator.
Kitchen sex can be a memorable experience for you and your partner. The only drawback is that you will never be able to walk through Ikea again without giggling. And also keep in mind that after preparing your partner you will also have to prepare a meal there at some point.
The washing machine as the ultimate vibrator
The laundry room may not be the most romantic place to be intimate together. Still, the biggest vibrator you will even come across, is already there for you!
Have you ever sat on a washing machine? Especially when the washing machine starts spinning, this creates wonderful vibrations. In addition, the dryer provides extra heat. Both take off your clothes spontaneously and put them in the washing machine and challenge each other to last until the end of the washing program.
There is no elevator to good sex, you have to take the stairs
The stairs are not the most comfortable place in the house to have sex. But think again. On the stairs you can easily do certain positions without having to squeeze corners. Moreover, it has something ‘urgent’; as if you didn’t have time to go to the bedroom because you just had to have sex!
Some positions are ideal for the stairs. “Doggy style“, for example, is easier on the stairs than on the bed or on the floor. The receiving party can easily find support on the higher steps. And both parties need to have less weight on their arms.
Oral sex and even the missionary position can be performed on the stairs.
Do you want to make things extra kinky? Then use the handrail to tie your partner!
Wet, wetter, wettest
The bathroom is the most favorite place to masturbate for many people. But why not have sex with your partner in the shower or bath? It is relaxing and intimate and you can easily wash yourself before and after.
Penetration in the bath can lead to quite a bit of waves and that can lead to flooding. Therefore, mutual masturbation in the bath is always a good idea. Sit opposite each other and watch the other person do it.
Don’t be a couch potato
Do you have a nice lounge sofa where you can sink into? Or one with high side rails? Such a sofa is perfect for great positions and perhaps even more comfortable than your bed.
Try playing a role-playing game on the couch, such as “the nanny and the father,” or “the first time as a teenager.” Or play “the patient and the psychologist,” or “the empress and her slave.”
Use the cushions for extra support in different positions.