Many people fantasize about kink. After all, with a lively imagination you never really get bored. However, everyone’s imagination can also use some inspiration. That’s why we’ve lined up 15 kinky fantasies. Who knows, maybe there is something that stimulates your mind, or that you would really like to try out.

Some of these kinky fantasies are related to BDSM. If you want to carry out such fantasies, make sure you do your homework and communicate extensively with your partner about it.

Bondage & Bukkake

Imagine: You are tied to a bed, while dozens of men spray their cum over you (bukkake). A woman plays with the fingers with the seed and spreads it on your skin.

Fantasy or reality: This is a fantasy that is very difficult to put into practice. The more people involved, the harder it gets. Everyone must be on the same wavelength for this. It is not impossible, but it requires a lot of planning and preparation.

Gagged & Pegged

Imagine: Your friend is gagged and his hands are tied. You use a strap on dildo to have anal sex.

Fantasy or reality: This is a fantasy of both men and women. To find out if your partner is up for this, you can carefully discuss the topic of pegging.

Age play

Imagine: You are an adult, but you pretend to be a teenager. You wear a girls’ school uniform and an strong older man gives you compliments and tells you what to do. If you’re naughty you get spanking.

Fantasy or reality: If you don’t have a steady partner who wants to play the ‘age play‘ role play with you, it can be difficult to put this fantasy into practice. This is not a game that you want to play with just anyone. It requires trust and good communication. How far you go is entirely up to you.

The human toilet

Imagine: There is a posh party with men and women in evening gowns. If someone goes to the toilet they will find you tied up there. They can use your to relieve themselves, or they can use you for their sexual comfort.

Fantasy or reality: Just as with the other fantasies in which several persons occur, the more people involved, the more difficult it becomes. After all, you cannot occupy the toilet at some party for everyone to just walk in to you unsolicited.

Full control

Imagine: Have you read ‘Click‘ by Milo Manara? In it someone has a remote control with which he can excite a woman at any time of the day. Imagine wearing a remote-controlled sex toy – like the Lovense Lush – and having your partner turn it on whenever he or she wants to. When you go shopping, when you are on the train, when you are at work, or in a restaurant …

Fantasy or reality: This is a fantasy that is quite easy to carry out. All you need is a toy that you can control remotely (preferably with an app on your smartphone) and a partner who is in for naughty games. Besides, that partner can be anywhere in the world.

Sperm Slut

Imagine: You are wearing a leather collar with a leash. Your partner keeps you under control and ‘forces’ you in this way to satisfy her / him orally. After that, your partner will fuck you until both of you cum. Then you lick your partner completely clean.

Fantasy or reality: This fantasy can be exciting for anyone, regardless of gender or orientation. There is an exciting element of humiliation and surrender. If you want to try this in real life, talk about it openly with your partner. Explain your imagination and how much you want to try it.

The hero and the villain

Imagine: You are the hero captured by the villain. You will be tied up and sadistically tortured with whips or dripping candle wax. The villain will also sexually “abuse” you to get the truth out of you. But you are inexorable and will never speak. Never!

Fantasy or reality: If you have a partner who is willing to play this role-playing game with you, you can prepare it together. Make sure your and your partner’s clothes match this theme. You also provide the necessary BDSM articles to torture with.

Tomorrow never comes …

Imagine: You are tied up and your partner teases you for hours. Whenever you almost come, your partner stops. Eventually, your genitals starts to become extremely sensitive and you beg to be allowed to cum. But when you finally have permission to come, your partner doesn’t stop and he or she forces one orgasm after another until you have to beg to stop.

Fantasy or reality: ‘Edging‘ and ‘forced orgasm‘ are closely related. If your partner also is game, there is nothing against trying this out. A good wand vibrator can come in handy in that case.

Human furniture

Imagine: You are in a BDSM dungeon and you are on your hands and knees on the stone floor. You are completely naked. Other persons are tied to the wall. They have candles in their hands and are human candlesticks. People come in who completely ignore you. You are furniture pieces. Someone sits down on you, or places a glass on your back. As the evening progresses, the partygoers start to use the pieces of furniture more and more intensively for their sexual comfort.

Fantasy or reality: To put this fantasy into practice you need a lot of preparation and a large group of like-minded people. Sometimes there are theme nights in clubs. Orient yourself well and do your homework. Or limit your imagination to what is achievable.

The sex slave

Imagine: You are a slave to a sultan, or a Roman emperor or empress. You should be available at all times. When your owner has the need, he or she can use you. You are a kind of sex toy that your owner uses to masturbate with. All weekend you are tied up and used by your owner and everyone with whom he or she wants to share you with.

Fantasy or reality: This is a very nice role-playing game that is quite easy to realize if your partner agrees to it. OK, if others have to participate as well, it requires a bit more preparation.

The center of attention

Imagine: You are blindfolded and you don’t know who is in the room. You feel hands all over your body. Different mouths on your nipples, your mouth and in your crotch. You have sex with everyone. And with everyone at the same time.

Fantasy or reality: It is very exciting to be loved by many people at the same time. Because you are blindfolded in this fantasy, it is important that – if you want to implement this fantasy – you trust all those present. And that there is at least one person who protects you against things you don’t want to happen. Again, the more people, the more preparation and the more difficult it is to perform. Consider going to a swingers club.

Face sitting

Imagine: You are tied up and your partner sits on your face. This is how your partner ‘forces’ you to perform oral sex. Only when your partner decides you can, you will allowed to have sex. Your partner uses toys on you and you are completely at the mercy of your partner.

Fantasy or reality: Face sitting is very exciting for many people. Both to undergo and to give. Discuss your imagination with your partner. Chances are it has fantasized about it.

You are the sex toy

Imagine: You are tied in a way that your genitals and all your body openings are freely accessible. There is a group of people (men and women) who can do anything with you. And they do. They use dildos, nipple clamps, vibrators … There is no escaping it.

Fantasy or reality: Once you are dealing with group sex it is important that you can fully trust everyone. Does everyone use a condom? Have they been tested for STDs? It is not easy to actually realize something like this without the necessary planning and preparation.

The dinner

Imagine: You are the servant at a very posh dinner. However, you are completely naked. Not only do you have to take care of serving the food and drinks, but you also have to please the guests in all other ways. You cannot refuse, because you are obliging. Do any of the guests want to be satisfied orally? Then you crawl under the table. Does anyone want to drink the wine from your mouth? Then you do that. Anyone want to fuck you? You ask in which position.

Fantasy or reality: This is a fantasy that many people have. Yet it is incredibly difficult to implement. Not only must you have the necessary guests, who all have the same fantasy. You should also take care of the food and drinks. Practically, this is only feasible if you meet a large group of people who want to help you with the preparations. Or, make it small and only serve your partner.

Sex lessons

Imagine: You are a teenager again and you have never done ‘it’ before. You are with a classmate and you are studying biology together. But the drawings in the book are quite unclear. So you go exploring on each other. What does a erect penis really look like? And where is that clitoris at all?

Fantasy or reality: If you and your partner both have some fantasy, it is fun to play this role-playing game. It is also the perfect way to innocently tell your partner what you like and to ask all the things you are unsure about.

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Have any other fantasy that you like to share? We would love to hear what kinky fantasies turn you on.