A while ago, we wrote about how to choose a prostate massager in 10 easy steps. The prostate, or P-spot, is somewhat considered the male equivalent of the female G-spot. Guys who have tried stimulating their prostate before know that it intensifies their orgasm quite a bit. Now of course you can do that with your finger (because free and always nearby), but it’s not really comfortable. And why should you, when there are such wonderful devices for sale, made especially for that purpose
But then the search begins. Fortunately, the taboo on sex toys for men is diminishing. But even with the 10 easy steps, you may still find you can’t see the forest for the trees. That’s why we’ll give you a hand. With choosing, that is. The rest is up to you.
What is a prostate massager, or P-spot massager?
A prostate massager or P-spot massager is a thing that you insert anally as a man and, due to its special shape, massages the prostate. In doing so, you combine the useful with the pleasurable, as you can read in our post on prostate massages.
The prostate is an organ that produces a number of excipients that are added to semen. About 20% to 30% of semen fluid comes from the prostate. You can feel the prostate if you run your fingers several inches into your anus. It is a piece of spongy tissue somewhat like a walnut. The prostate is also called the P-spot, as it bears some comparison to the female G-spot.
Still, it’s not easy to feel your prostate yourself. It may be just too deep. Prostate massagers are designed in shape and length so that, through the anus, they stimulate your prostate perfectly.
Stimulating the prostate makes an orgasm feel extra intense. But not only that. By massaging the prostate, the prostate releases the stored sperm fluid and is flushed clean, so to speak. If this does not happen often, it can cause inflammation and swelling. Regular massage prevents prostatis (inflammation), prostate cancer, genital pain and pain during urination. In addition, it improves erectile function and increases the amount of seminal fluid and circulation.
In general, you can divide prostate massagers into two groups: vibrating and non-vibrating massagers. Below we provide mini reviews of different prostate massagers. Vibrating prostate massagers are generally thicker and larger, if only because the motor and battery need to be housed. This makes them less suitable for the true beginner. Those are better off choosing an entry-level model, without vibrations.
We-Vibe Vector – app controlled
My personal all-time favorite P-spot massager is the We-Vibe Vector. In my review of the We-Vibe Vector, you could already read how super-enthusiastic I am about this prostate vibrator. You can move the little arm of the Vector, allowing you to set the angle that works best for you. It really satisfies on every level. Easy to insert, deep intense vibrations, easy control, hands free, remote control and control with an app that you can hand off to someone else. Really, if you do want to buy a P-spot vibrator, go for this one.
We-Vibe Vector – €139,00
Lora Dicarlo Tilt – warming P-spot vibrator
This toy has two motors and a heating element, all three of which can be operated independently. Each motor has seven intensity settings and three vibration patterns. That heat feature makes all the difference. There are more G-spot and P-spot toys that vibrate nice and hard, but there are few that feel so nice and warm. That heat is very pleasant and relaxing and is really an added value. Furthermore, the vibrations of the internal arm are really deliciously deep. You can use the Tilt in many different ways. Especially since you can set all the functions separately. So you can also use the head of the internal part to hold against the clitoris or glans and the toy is for both her and him. Also read my review.
Lora DiCarlo Tilt – €49,99
Njoy Pfun Plug – metal plug
The Njoy PFun is a very luxurious prostate plug with a great design. Made entirely of metal, this butt plug feels stronger, heavier and smoother than prostate massagers made of silicone or ABS. The Pfun has a curved tip with a round, pointed top, making it easy to insert. Metal can be used with all types of lubricant. In addition, metal is also nice if you find Temperature Play attractive. The metal will feel cold at first, but can be warmed up by placing the plug in cold or hot water. Or you rub the Njoy Pfun between your hands to let it take on body temperature. The prostate plug comes in stunning packaging which also makes it the ultimate gift for yourself or your partner.Dimensions: Length:12 cm, insertion depth: 8.5 cm, maximum diameter: 3.2 cm
Njoy Pfun Plug (medium) – €142,99
Hueman – Tapping Buttplug
This plug is made of soft silicone and features 10 different vibration modes, including 3 speeds and 7 patterns. The shaft of this luxurious butt plug is curved to stimulate the prostate and provide stimulation. The battery is rechargeable.
Hueman tappende buttplug – €59,99
Glass Prostate butt plug
This curved butt plug is perfect for prostate stimulation. The anal plug is made entirely of glass, making it feel heavier and smoother than standard prostate plugs. The curved shaft ensures a perfect position while the pull ring always provides a good grip. Cool or heat the plug by placing it in water for a while or holding it under the faucet. Glass sextoys are safe, hygienic and you can use any type of lubricant. Moreover, they look beautiful. Dimensions: Length:13.5 cm, insertion depth: 9 cm, maximum diameter: 4.3 cm.
Glazen prostaat buttplug – €24,99
LELO Hugo – prostate vibrator
The LELO Hugo is one of the prostate massagers from top brand LELO. The Hugo has with unique remote control with SenseMotion. This allows you to control the 8 modes through movements with the hand holding the remote control. Very fun when your partner controls the remote while making “other moves. The Hugo is 100% waterproof, making it suitable for use in the bath or shower. This toy gives a deep massage to the prostate, while a second motor at the bottom stimulates the perineum. The LELO Hugo has very powerful vibrations and is made of super soft silicone.
Dimensions: Length: 11 cm, insertion depth: 9 cm, maximum diameter: 3 cm
LELO Hugo – €219,99
LELO Loki Wave – the rabbit of for the prostate (and perineum)
The LELO Loki Wave is similar to the regular Loki prostate massager, but with a few extras. There is a motor for the anal plug and one for the perineal massager. The Hugo has the same setup of motors. However, the Loki Wave also has a so-called “come here” motion. This makes the Loki Wave unique. As a result, the Loki Wave makes a motion as if a finger is rubbing along your prostate and applying pressure to it. The Loki Wave is of high quality, as you would expect from LELO. It is rechargeable and 100% waterproof. However, it is a bit on the thick side, which may be a bit “too much” for beginners.
Dimensions: Length:19.6 cm, insertion depth:10 cm, maximum diameter: 3.8 cm
LELO Loki Wave – €219,99
Prostate Massager – Curved
This silicone prostate dildo from Easytoys provides a wonderful massage of your P-spot. It is made of silicone which makes it easy to clean with a with water and mild soap. Also, silicone is very flexible for comfortable use. The dildo is curved so that it touches your sensitive prostate and the design allows a targeted massage thanks to the loop at the bottom, giving you a good grip on the dildo.
EasyToys Prostaat massager – €14,99
Nexus – Vibro Prostate Massager
The Nexus Vibro is both a prostate and perineum stimulator. The ridges on the shaft make this a unique stimulator, which the perineum is stimulated by the stainless steel ball. In addition, it contains a small bullet vibrator. Both the ball and the mini vibrator are removable and this is where you could place any eStim accessories. The Nexus Vibro is easy to clean after each use with lukewarm water.
Nexus Vibro – €98,99
MyMagicWand G-Spot/Prostate attachment
If you own a MagicWand, you can have even more fun with this attachment! The attachment is specially designed for G-spot or prostate stimulation. It is made entirely of silicone and feels wonderfully soft and flexible. It is also easy to put on your wall vibrator. Clean the attachment well before and after use with water and toy cleaner for hygienic use. Available in different colors.
MyMagicWand opzetstuk – €19,99
The prices listed are subject to change and are included as an indication. Look for more prostate toys in our shop.
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